How to deal with criticism on the dance floor

At OnSalsa, our classes are about learning, growing, and enjoying the journey together.

That means:

  • Making mistakes
  • Trying new things
  • Laughing when it goes wrong
  • Supporting each other

But sometimes, dancers experience criticism that doesn’t feel helpful and it can knock confidence.

Nobody walks into a salsa class already “perfect”!

Every confident dancer you see:

  • Once felt unsure
  • Once forgot steps
  • Once got things wrong

If you’re trying, showing up, and giving your best then you’re doing exactly what you should be doing.

Not all feedback is bad but there are ways of communicating it.

  • Given with permission
  • Supportive
  • Private
  • Encouraging

Example: “Would you like a little tip?”, “What about trying this a different way”?

  • Unasked for
  • Public
  • Negative
  • Discouraging

Example: “You’re doing that wrong.” “You should do it like me”.

If someone gives you advice you didn’t ask for from “class mates”, you can respond politely and confidently:

  • “Thank you, I’m just enjoying learning and I’ll ask the teachers for help”.
  • “I’m not perfect but I’ll keep trying and practising”.
  • “I’m trying really hard so with time I’ll get there, thank you”.

Salsa improvement happens in stages:

  • Some weeks feel great
  • Some weeks feel confusing
  • Some weeks feel messy

That’s normal. It isn’t about never making mistakes, it’s about coming back and trying again. AND we are very proud of you for doing that.

  • Encourage you
  • Makes you feel comfortable
  • Respect your level

It is precious so look after it.

If something upsets you, please remember:

When You Want Feedback, Ask for It

If you’d like to improve, the best people to ask are:

  • Your teachers
  • Our assistants
  • Trusted, supportive dancers

Try:

“Could you give me one thing to work on?” This keeps learning positive and constructive.

Our Class Culture

✔ Kindness

✔ Respect

✔ Encouragement

✔ Patience

 Final Message

You belong in this class.

You belong on this dance floor.

You belong in this community.

Keep dancing

Keep learning

Keep smiling

We’re proud of you

With love,

Rosa & Giles 💛💃